Website design By BotEap.comThere are two types of turning points.

Website design By BotEap.comThe negative and the positive.

Website design By BotEap.comTHE NEGATIVE is fairly easy to identify. It’s that moment when some small act makes you lose your temper. It’s that moment when someone does something pretty harmless and you explode. It is that moment when you can see by the expression on their faces that they have much more than they bargained for.

Website design By BotEap.comGraham calls it: the demijohn moment from his winemaking days. Imagine that you have a big glass bottle inside you that collects all the aches and pains throughout the week, month, year. Then the last thing, usually the smallest, is the final piece that fills the bottle and pops the cork. You go absolutely nuts and the person who created the moment can’t believe you’ve gone so crazy over such a small issue.

Website design By BotEap.comMy mother used to call it: the straw that broke the camel’s back.

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Website design By BotEap.comThe POSITIVE turning point is more difficult to assess. This is that little piece of information that changes your life. Change the way to see the world. It pushes you to do something different. Some call it the eureka moment.

Website design By BotEap.comWhatever you call it, it’s that little piece that finally takes you out of your comfort zone. It pushes you into action. It pushes you into the stretch zone.

Website design By BotEap.comAll the lemons cascade down and you see it all in glorious Technicolor for the first time. There is no way back.

Website design By BotEap.comOur friend Jane was at that point a while ago.

Website design By BotEap.comShe was working on a project that wasn’t working. In fact, she was going downhill fast. The parent company pulled the plug and put her out of a job. Life as she knew it was over. Finish.

Website design By BotEap.comThis left Jane in total chaos. She was everywhere. She was unpredictable. She was in a mess. She lost her clarity. She lost focus on her.

Website design By BotEap.comShe had spent so much time focused on the basic struggle to survive that she had lost the ability to stop, assess, and make a decision.

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Website design By BotEap.comAll the lights came on. It was like sitting in a football stadium. His eyes widened. His eyes grew brighter. A smile appeared on his face and tears welled up in his eyes.

Website design By BotEap.com“It’s over. I can’t keep doing this to myself. My whole life is being dominated by one idea that didn’t work. I need to move on. I need to do what I’m good at.”

Website design By BotEap.comThen it was as if a weight was lifted from his shoulders. It was as if he had been given a new pair of glasses. She was able to see the whole picture. She began to see how her life had been controlled and haunted by the project.

Website design By BotEap.comIn a couple of days his life changed completely. She did something completely out of character. She got a place as a hairdresser on one of the most prestigious ocean liners and has never looked back. She loves life.

Website design By BotEap.comJane had reached her turning point.

Website design By BotEap.comTHE POSITIVE TURNING POINT is neither more nor less than that point we reach in our lives where an opening occurs. The point where there is nothing but discovery. The point where something new begins.

Website design By BotEap.comWe may not have a map. We may not have the understanding of where it will take us. But we know it feels good. It aligns with our core values ​​and our vision.

Website design By BotEap.comThe guiding principle is as William Shakespeare said in Hamlet:

Website design By BotEap.com“This above all: to yourself be faithful”

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