Website design By BotEap.com(I realize that not all women and men are exactly the same. The generalizations made in this article are not intended to criticize and judge all members of any gender group.)

Website design By BotEap.comThe media are amused by our mistakes. There are jokes about our inadequacies in relationships; what is not funny is the divorce rate in the United States. 2010 statistics show a divorce rate of 50%!

Website design By BotEap.comI’m a boy, I’ve made a lot of mistakes in relationships and I see other guys doing the same. Do what you want, but keep making these 3 mistakes and, in the long run, you will be ready to seek the closest way out of the relationship.

Website design By BotEap.comThere are 3 commonly stupid mistakes we make in relationships.

Website design By BotEap.comGuys build relationships when you know you have a hard time committing

Website design By BotEap.comWhy is the ‘Ass’ of the group the first to marry, when everyone knows that he will not be able to commit to that woman … or any woman? The first silly mistake is getting into something that we can’t commit to. Friend, why?

Website design By BotEap.comA monogamous relationship has to be the worst deal in life; It’s the worst deal IF you don’t love the lady. That’s as if someone told you that the only one you will ever have is that Honda Civic. A horrible deal, unless you really like that Civic. If you are the type of man who loves to chase women or women who chase you … you are not yet a candidate for a relationship. No matter how capricious it makes you feel, you are the only one who knows your ability to embrace a long-term relationship.

Website design By BotEap.comThere is nothing wrong with not wanting to tie yourself up. Forget the ‘experts’ who blame you for changing your behavior … who diagnose you with the dreaded disease: commitment issues. You are free to do what you want with your life, just don’t drag an interested woman into a long-term relationship. Be honest with yourself, with her and stay out of a relationship if you know very well what you can’t commit to … eventually, someday (maybe) you will.

Website design By BotEap.comBoys allow the woman to have full control of the relationship

Website design By BotEap.comProfessionals and experts say that a relationship should never be about control, I agree. However, people seem to be trying to quickly establish control in a relationship, whether that person knows it or not, including women. It’s cute at first, but clutter can get old quickly. From the style of the curtain that you should hang in YOUR apartment to how you spend your time. That is an indication that you are preparing for more nonsense. This is your tail for tactfully discussing boundaries. You will never go wrong with the plea for justice. What is fair is that you never invade her time / space … and she does not do the same.

Website design By BotEap.comYou better never allow the lady to have full control over the relationship. Relationships must be balanced, fair. No man needs a second mother … a second mother, not sexy. If you are the type of man who enjoys a ‘second mother’, what a shame! The moment you meet another woman who treats you like a man and not the ‘child’ like you’ve been acting, you’ll start wanting THAT instead of the ‘second mother’.

Website design By BotEap.comNo one person should dominate the relationship. If a man is caught dominating a relationship, he may find himself on some popular talk show with his ‘dirty clothes’ on the air in front of millions.

Website design By BotEap.comHaving total control in a relationship is not fair, if it is wrong for a man to do it … well, it is wrong for a woman to do it.

Website design By BotEap.comBoys do not communicate their needs to their partner

Website design By BotEap.comMen are criticized for being too passive or uncommunicative in relationships. In many cases that is true. You have to learn to speak, communicate your needs to the lady, Ace.

Website design By BotEap.comIf you can learn to reconfigure a motor, build a robot, or memorize cheat codes … you can learn to express yourself more often in a relationship. For example, if you always feel like you’re doing too much on the weekends and just want to relax … say so. If you feel like he hasn’t been the nicest person to you lately, say so. The lady may have some doubts because you’ve probably given her too much control over the relationship (see mistake # 2). Once you get over your doubts and denials on the subject, you can work on the problem. You will find that people are flexible, including women.

Website design By BotEap.comThe first step is to stand up for what you want in a relationship. Friends, this does not include asking to be granted any sexual fantasy or favor. You know there is more to a relationship than that. If you don’t know, it is obvious that you made mistake n. 1. HOW the lady treats you in a relationship is more important than you think. If you don’t get it, you must be single right now!

Website design By BotEap.comCommunicate with the woman. Don’t just win her over with compliments, tell her when she’s being a jerk, acting inconsiderate, or not listening. If you think these problems are weightless now, if you don’t control them, you will start to develop feelings of regret and resentment. With most human beings, when those feelings take over, we blame the other person instead of ourselves. If you don’t tell her what you have in mind, it will be your fault, not hers; communicate with partner.

Website design By BotEap.comNo relationship is perfect, but we don’t have to make mistakes that can lead to additional problems that come with relationships. Do a good job avoiding these commonly stupid mistakes and experience a lifestyle with less stress, more time to build robots, and no lockable cars.

Website design By BotEap.com(I am not a licensed professional. The source of all advice shared comes from personal experiences. When seeking advice, consider seeking the help of a professional counselor or therapist.)

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