Women: love your imperfections

Website design By BotEap.comPhew.

Website design By BotEap.comThat is a loaded topic.

Website design By BotEap.comEspecially, if you’re a busy professional woman trying to get it all done.

Website design By BotEap.comAfter all, every woman knows that if she does everything right and is perfect in every way, she will be serving love and will get the love she wants.

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Website design By BotEap.comBeing perfect will not make them love you.

Website design By BotEap.comIn fact, trying to be perfect makes you irritable. It makes it challenging for other people to be around you. And that makes you one of the hardest people to love.

Website design By BotEap.comSo stop striving for perfection!

Website design By BotEap.comInstead, accept your imperfections.

Website design By BotEap.comWhat makes women strive for perfection?

Website design By BotEap.comTo embrace and love your glorious imperfections, you must first understand what drives your striving for perfection.

Website design By BotEap.comIn a word: fear.

Website design By BotEap.comAs women, in general, and busy professional women in particular, the number one fear that drives our striving for perfection is the fear of not being good enough.

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Website design By BotEap.com· Mother.

Website design By BotEap.com· Company owner.

Website design By BotEap.com· Career woman.

Website design By BotEap.comWife.

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Website design By BotEap.comDaughter.

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Website design By BotEap.comFor many women, the fear of not being good enough came from people we loved or admired who wanted us to be, do, or have more. Although seemingly innocent and dressed in the ‘sheepskin’ of good intentions, the wolf on our heels eroded our self-confidence and germinated our mistrust in ourselves and in others.

Website design By BotEap.comFor other women, having self-confidence was not modeled or valued. As a result, being ‘perfect’ meant being like someone else who was heard praised for their perfection.

Website design By BotEap.comEither way, “The condition, state, or quality of being free or as free as possible from all defects or faults,” as the Merriam-Webster dictionary defines it, is an impossible ideal.

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Website design By BotEap.comYou miss RREP&A.

Website design By BotEap.comThat is rest, recovery, ease, peace and acceptance.

Website design By BotEap.comAs busy professional women, we need PR&A.

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Website design By BotEap.comR. it means restless,

Website design By BotEap.comR. means relapse into ill health, feeling

Website design By BotEap.commy means ashamed, converted

Website design By BotEap.comP means panic and have

Website design By BotEap.comIN means anxiety.

Website design By BotEap.comWhen that happens, we experience adrenal fatigue, hormonal imbalances, and become moody around others.

Website design By BotEap.comThree steps to embracing your beautiful imperfections

Website design By BotEap.comStep 1: Love yourself.

Website design By BotEap.comThe first step is the most difficult. It is the step that unlocks any resistance you have to the next steps.

Website design By BotEap.comFirst love yourself. You just have to. There is no beating around the bush about it. So, I’ll go straight to the heart of this: without self-love, there is no love. I know. That’s big to swallow.

Website design By BotEap.comHere’s how you do it: Cozy up on the sofa one afternoon with a cup of tea, a pad of paper, and your favorite pen. Start making a list of all the things you have accomplished in your life. List everything big and small.

Website design By BotEap.comWow! Good? Look how much you have achieved! It’s pretty impressive!

Website design By BotEap.comNow, reread the list and acknowledge all that you have accomplished. Let it sink in The first step to accepting your beautiful imperfections is to first love yourself.

Website design By BotEap.comStep 2: Take care of your love.

Website design By BotEap.comWhat the hell does that mean?

Website design By BotEap.comIt means respecting and honoring your body and your emotions. And take time to treasure and honor the body and emotions of the special people in your life. Your partner, your children and your dear friends should be cherished.

Website design By BotEap.comHere’s how to do it: Nourish your body with good food, trust your intuition, speak your truth and honor the truth of others, respect the body of others and lean on yourself with love to meet needs in healthy ways.

Website design By BotEap.comStep 3: Love your imperfections.

Website design By BotEap.comThe heart of this article is realizing that your imperfections are actually your own unique and personal perfections. They are what make you who you are. They are as individual as snowflakes and as precious as diamonds. Embrace your diamonds and snowflakes.

Website design By BotEap.comYour imperfections are your lessons. Think of them as guides along your path of achievement.

Website design By BotEap.comHere’s how you do it: Remember the list you made in Step 1? Check that list. Choose five that you are proud of achieving. Write them down on five separate pieces of paper. Then list the ‘mistakes’ he made along the way that led to his achievement.

Website design By BotEap.comSee? Each ‘mistake’ was simply a stepping stone to his incredible achievements.

Website design By BotEap.comLove your imperfections. Hug them. Honor them for how they have helped you become the confident professional woman you know yourself to be. Loving your perfections is liberating. She gives you permission to take the pressure off yourself and relax a bit. Follow these three steps and accept your imperfections now. She will free you to fly into a loving inner space.

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